I saw this interesting article online and i decided to share it to you my readers
Pornography is everywhere, from our neighbourhood, to the TV programmes, to the Internets , the list keeps increasing. . . The rate at which our ladies are constantly contributing to the promotion of pornography is alarming. From indecent dressing to irrelevant fashions, and tight-fitting attires.
Its hardly possible to go a day without seeing a lady dressing indecently on the street. If as a guy i am not confortable with going outside my gate in just my boxers and singlet to get something from the Northerner in front of my house, i don't understand aw some ladies can walk from Mushin to Oshodi in just a bumper short or micro-mini skirt and a sleeveless top, revealing their Breast-vages and breast-pits to the public.
Well, truly pornography is much more than that but thats where it starts from, infact for me its under the same category.
Gone are the days when we surf hard on the internet to find porn, now its all over the internet, from facebook to twitter to badoo to tagged to mini-webpages and so on. . . Many didnt start viewing pornography out of a delibrately act but cos of their curiosity. One could be innocently surfing the internet one cold night and suddenly u get a pop-up notifying u to click on a web page which actually is a porn site and from there, they get trapped. . . Many actually regret this action and strive to correct their mistake but its not been easy doing so, but truly i must tell u, the habitual act of viewing pornography does more harm to u than the temporary pleasure u derive.
So. . . .
Among many, here are some reasons why you should stop watching pornography and hence stop masturbating:
IT'S AN IMPORTANT STEP YOU MUST TAKE IF YOU WANT TO GIVE UP MASTURBATION.
Masturbation is the delibrate stimulation one's genitals or that of others which often leads to orgasm. Before i tell u how quitting of porn viewing helps to curb masturbation, u must know why u shouldnt masturbate.
Masturbation is a spiritually unhealthy habit which instills in one an atittude of self-centredness and corrupt mind. A masturbator in time will grow to view others as mere sex object for sexual satisfaction. Sex becomes seperated from love and is relegated to a reflex that gives momentary a relieves sexual tension of which the relief is only temporary. A masturbator lacks self control, they get overly aroused at every slight sexual incident. Lets say a lady's body touches him on a queue, or in a bus or he or she sees a poster revealing little part of the body. Most rapist are unrepentant masturbators. They get seduced easily, imagine a little girl of four years old sitting on the legs of a 30 years old masturbator, without doubt he will start feeling aroused since he lacks self control. Most fathers who rapes their child are chronic masturbator who couldnt just control them selves. Masturbation clouds the thinking of such ones who indulge in it.
All they ever think about is how to please them selves, they can get off any where. This is a bad habit that needs to be eradicated in ones life. One step towards quitting masturbation is to avoid pornography of every kind. Especially on the internet, block ur way to it, block all pop-up notification, use ur computers and phones in public places where you are not free to watch porn. To quit masturbation it is very compulsory to avoid pornography.